tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-81416469329049603352024-03-13T13:24:34.016-07:00袁昌明的博客真名袁無名化名原住民現名老猿--村夫野话集poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.comBlogger491125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-42892141331774429292024-03-12T08:16:00.000-07:002024-03-12T08:16:16.615-07:00大龙评拙作“调音哨”<p style="margin: 1em 0px;">大龙先生是我早年在天津外贸学院的同事和好友,移民前曾长期在南开大学教授翻译课,现已退休定居于新西兰。看了俺的英文短篇小说"<strong>The Tuner"</strong>后,年近八旬的他竟然不惮麻烦,写下如下评论,其细心、敏锐的观察力及深刻、中肯的评说令我拍案叫好, 在此转贴他老兄的来信和原文,聊以分享,更为存念。</p><p style="margin: 1em 0px;">这是拙作“调音哨”的链接,有兴趣的读者可以直接读原文::</p><p style="margin: 1em 0px;"><span style="background: white; color: #333333;"><a href="https://www.short-story.me/stories/general-stories/1542-the-turner">https://www.short-story.me/stories/general-stories/1542-the-turner</a> [1515 hits] 或</span></p><p style="margin: 1em 0px;"><span style="background: white; color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16px;"><a href="https://indianreview.in/fiction/the-tuner-yuan-changming/">https://indianreview.in/fiction/the-tuner-yuan-changming/</a></span></p><p style="margin: 1em 0px;">这是龙兄昨日的来信和评论::</p><p style="margin: 1em 0px;">昌明老弟,近来可好?Tuner故事看了,非常好!里面有大量的人物心理活动描写,十分细腻,深刻,不过局外人读起来未见得都能抓住重点,只跟着故事发展脉络,猜测应该是这么回事,或不应该是这么回事,按照这个写点儿感想。要是前边猜测错了,后边的就全错了。看着玩儿吧。</p><p style="margin: 1em 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> 调音哨</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">”</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">讲</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">的是</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">两个老知青的情感故事。主人公明从海外回乡探亲,特意安排一次聚会,期待</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">见</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">见</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">当年的知青老友</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">,尤其</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">是</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">女知青花</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">,想</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">趁这个机会</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">把</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">欠她的最后一笔</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">“</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">情债</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">”</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">还掉</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">,当面向她表白</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">40</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">几</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">年前</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">插队</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">时</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">爱过她,并问</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">问</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">她</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">是否</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">还</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">记</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">得</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">当初</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">给他的调音哨。故事以</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">这段</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">还</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">“</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">债</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">”</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">情节开篇,</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">引出</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">“</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">调音哨</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">”</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">和</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">“</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">命中</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">因缘</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">”</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">两</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">条线,</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">二者</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">彼此</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">关联。故事循着</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">这</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">两条线</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">索</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">,</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">交织叙述</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">了</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">两人</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">数十年</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">的情感历程</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">,</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">展开</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">描写</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">了</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">明对爱情的执着追求</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">。</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">这里</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">取</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">调音哨</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">部分</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">说</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">一</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">点</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">感</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">想</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 18px; line-height: 21.6px; text-align: justify;">。</span><br /></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> 故事中,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">调音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">爱情象征</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">牵扯</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">到</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">三个</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">人</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">物</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的情感。对明来说,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">它</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一件</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">爱情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">信物</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">对</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">来说</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一份</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">特别</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">念想</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,而</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">对于花,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">则是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一个</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">始终回避</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的话题。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">围绕着这只</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,故事展现</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">三人之间</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">交错</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的情感纠葛</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">所</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">构</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">建的</span><a></a><a></a><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">三角</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">中,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">执</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">意</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">挖掘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">背后</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">真相,花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">却</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">百般</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">地</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">躲闪</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">和</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">回避,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">最</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">后</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">由</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">出来</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">收</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">场</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">并</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">出真相</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这个情节设</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">计</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">增加了故事的悬念和层次感</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">其中</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">大</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">看点</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">故事</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">另一</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">大</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">看点,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是结尾处的情节大反转。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这个</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">意</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">外</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">情节</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">设</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">计</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">改变</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">读者对故事结局的预</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">期</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,增</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">添</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了故事的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">深度和</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">复杂</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">性</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,很有</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一种</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">反高潮的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">意味</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">非常</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">耐</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">看</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> 从文中</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">可以</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">看</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">到</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,明对花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">已经</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">暗恋</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">很</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">久,早在学校时就对她一见钟情,并</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">深</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">信俩人今生</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">注定</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">会</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">成</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">为夫妻。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">乡</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">下的一天</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这只</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨给</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明时</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">表现</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">得特别</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">私密,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明显透出暗示,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">以致于</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">都</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">觉得</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">只</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">差</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">亲口</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">“</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">爱</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">”</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说出来</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">因此,他</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">视为</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">自己</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">人生</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">中的第一件爱情信物</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">倍加</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">珍</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">惜</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">并</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在心中构建起美好</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">憧憬</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,计划</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">着</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">大学毕业后向她求婚,相信她也会欣然接受,想象</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">着</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">两人同去一个城市生活并在那里步入婚姻殿堂等</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">等</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">料</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">临近年底,情况发生了戏剧性转变,花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨要</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">回去,转</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">手</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">送</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">给</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">同队的潘姓知青。这一举动让明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">心</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">理</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">受到巨大打击,陷入</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">到</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">自我怀疑和否定之中,开始怀疑花已</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">经</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">有了新</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">欢</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">自己</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">自作多情,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">又</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">瞄准</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘进行自我比较,</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">猜测他</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">有</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">身高</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">优势</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">等</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">甚至</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">对自己</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一开始</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">过高</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">地</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">估计</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">对自己</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">感</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">而羞愧。自那一刻起,明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">深</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">陷</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">于</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">妒嫉、羞辱和自哀自怨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的痛苦之中,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">而</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这种</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">心态</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一直</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">存留</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">至今</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">因此,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">才</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">执意向花讨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">要</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说法</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">弄清</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">楚</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">个</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是不是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">给他的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">爱情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">信物</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"></span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"></span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> 然而如文中所述,有个问题</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一直</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">困扰</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">着</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">他</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,就是尽管他不止一次地追问过,花似乎对音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">却</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">毫无记忆</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不仅反应漠然,而且总是说自己没有印象。明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">认为</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她应该记得</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">非常</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">清楚</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">只是出于</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">各种考虑</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不愿意承认。他猜测可能是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">为了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">保护她美满的婚姻生活,或是出于女性的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一种</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">尊严,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">要不就是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">担心</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">自己内心情感被人</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一眼看穿</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">等等</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">甚至想到她可能在玩</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">着</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">恋爱游戏,故意显</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">出</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">矜持</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">与</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">被动,以提高恋爱中的身价。直到几十年后,他们</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">俩人</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">关系已经</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">彻底</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">变</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">成了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">“</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">微信</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">”</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">夫妻,明再次</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">旧事重提,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">问</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">起</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花当年给他音哨的事情,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">仍</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">断然</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">地</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">否认</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">那</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是爱情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">信物</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">如果非要说她给过,那也只是为</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">帮助队里的男生们练习二胡</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">用</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,并</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">掺杂个人情感。她</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">坚决</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">表示绝不会把爱情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">信物</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">当</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">作</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">儿戏</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">送来送去,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">称</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">以</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她的性格绝对做</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不出来</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">那</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">种幼稚可笑的事情。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花承认,在乡下时对明确实有好感,但绝不是他所想象的那种爱情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">俩人</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">关系一开始就是个美好的误会</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">文中说,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">最终</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明接受了她</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">法</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">算是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">给音哨的真相画上了句号。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> 读者</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">或</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">许会问,既然理由如此正当,为何花不能直言回应,反而一味</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">地</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">躲闪</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">回避呢?</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">局外人看来</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">猜测虽然</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">有一定道理,但似乎都</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">到不了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她严重顾忌</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">到</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不愿开口</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的程度</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。实际上,明也怀疑其中必有不为人知的原因,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">所以</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">盼望着她有朝一日能摆脱道德束缚,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">打破沉寂,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">坦诚地</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把真相说出来。那么,这个原因究竟是什么</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">?</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">文中未提及,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这里</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">姑且作</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一个大胆的假设。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明其实心里清楚,恐怕只是碍于各种因素不便</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">捅破</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">那</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">就是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">当年花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">游走于他和潘之间</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。面对</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">着</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">同样聪明、英气且能干的队友,她应该同时被明和潘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">两人</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">所吸引,在交往中作了五五分情,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">并进行观察,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">比较和权衡。凭直觉,明感受到</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花给他音哨时传递出的爱意,其后的交往可能也让他越发觉得两人相互爱慕,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">因此</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">才特别看重她给的这只音哨,并非是毫无根据地一厢情愿或自作多情。后来,花把音哨要走</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">后</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">送给潘,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">恐怕</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">做过</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">比较和权衡后的重新选择。回头</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">来</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">看花的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">那番</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">解释。明说,他</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">接受</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她的解释,是感觉</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">逻辑上</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她把整个事件</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说通了。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不过</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,读者</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">换</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">个角度,从少女惯有的多变心理和做法上</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">去</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">看</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,故事可能呈现出截然不同的情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">形,花完全可能把音哨作</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">为</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">示爱的一个媒介,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">看人而定,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">再</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">视情况说</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">成</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是爱情信物或是学习工具。</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">从文中看,花最终也没有向明</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">提及</span><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;">音哨给潘之后的情况,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说明可能</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">还</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">存在</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">难以启齿的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">其他</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">隐情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> 故事</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">没有</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">对</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花和潘的关系</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">作过</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">多描写,只在结尾处</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">通</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">过</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">交代</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">哨子下落</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">暗示</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">出一些</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">端倪</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">由此</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">给出</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一个</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">意料</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">之外</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">情节</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">大反转</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">得知明与花老来</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"></span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">“</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">结伴</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">”</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">后,潘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">哨子寄给了他,并附上一张便条,大意是说,在网上看到</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">你</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">爱情</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">帖</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">文</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">后才知道</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">当初</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花把音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">先</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">给了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">你</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。早知如此,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">老弟</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">绝不会</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把它当作</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">特</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">别念想保留</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">至今</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。希望</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">别</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">像</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">我</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,让这只</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨把你</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">们各自的婚姻</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">调</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">走</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了调</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">从</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘的这段话</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">中,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">读者不难</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">听</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">出</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">其</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">弦外之音</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">:</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">坐实了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">当初花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">首先</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把音哨作为</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">示爱物件</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">送</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">给明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不然</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘不必含蓄</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">地</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">道歉</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">二</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">毁</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘的婚姻</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">可能</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">情况是,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">随</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">后</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">把</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">又</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">送</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">给</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">俩人</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">就</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">此</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">建立起恋爱关系。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">只是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">后</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">来</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">由</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">于</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">各种</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">原因</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">他们</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">各自</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">组建了</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">自己</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的家庭,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">然而,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">旧情难舍,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">仍然</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">深深</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">思念</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">着</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,把音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">视为</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一份</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">特别念想珍藏</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">起来</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">文中,潘未</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">音哨是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">如何</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">破坏</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">他</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">婚姻</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">但</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">猜测</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">与</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">女人的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">嫉妒</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">和</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">怨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">恨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">有</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">关</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">总之</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">最终</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">结</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">局</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">或</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是离婚、</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">或是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">冷战</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">或是不断吵吵闹闹</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">所以</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">作为朋友,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">潘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">才</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">提醒明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">注意</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">避免</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">重蹈他的覆辙。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; line-height: 21.6px;"></span><a></a><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> 说到这里,读者可以明白,面对明锲而不舍地追问,花之所以对音哨真相三缄其口,是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">其</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">心理和情感的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">困扰所致</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">当年</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">政治环境</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">下</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,如果坦</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">言</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">利</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">用音哨示爱,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">可能</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">会</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">给她</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">招来麻烦。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">得</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">权衡其中利弊关系,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">要</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">考虑</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">可能</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">对明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">造成</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">情感</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">和心里</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">伤害,也</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">要</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">顾忌队里男生之间的关系,更</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">担心</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一旦</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">传开后</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">会</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">影响</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">到</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">自己前途</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这种事情完全可能让她背上处分。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">几十年后</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花与明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的关系</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">已</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">经</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">彻底</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">改变,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">谈起柏拉图式恋爱,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">最后</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">发展到</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"></span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">“</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">夫妻</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">“</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">相称的地步。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">种情况下</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">花更</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">绝</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">无可能向明透露</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">出</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">半点音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的秘密</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,唯恐</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">说</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">出真相后牵出一连串陈年旧事</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">和</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">面对一系列追问,让她自尊自爱受到伤害</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">。</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">因此,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">她宁愿</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">守口如瓶</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,让这段过往</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">烂在肚子里</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">继续</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">保持</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">自己</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">在明</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">心目中的女神</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">形象,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">一个到老都性感迷人的女人</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,何乐</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">而</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">不为</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">?</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">至于</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">故事反转后俩人</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">关系如何,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">尽管</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">文中未</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">作</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">交代</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,不过</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">从</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">“</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">命中姻缘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">”</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的描写</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">中</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">看,俩人应该</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">依然</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">保持着精神夫妻的关系。道理也简单,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">既然</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">明与花</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">前世有缘</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">且</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">后世有份,命中注定</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">就是</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">夫妻,</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">想必调音哨</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">这个</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">插曲</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">对俩人关系</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">并无</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">大碍。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; font-family: -webkit-standard; font-size: 18px; line-height: 0; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 1em 0px;"><br style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /></p><p><br /></p><span style="background: white; color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: HI; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: HI; mso-font-kerning: .5pt;"></span>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-24250088491126117262023-12-03T15:58:00.000-08:002023-12-03T15:58:15.582-08:00老猿文讯6则-2023,12月<p> 1。下半年诗歌因投稿比过去空前少,被录取也相对最少(一共不到40个),几乎法善可陈,除了加国的<i>vallum</i>, 美国的<i>voices international</i>, 澳洲的<i>meniscus</i>等杂志再次录用我稿外,唯一值得一提的新杂志是ucla成人创作专业主办的<i>south and alibi</i>属于首次录取。</p><p>2。8月29日收到洛杉矶一家出版社的通知,我的首部英文长篇小说 (三部曲的第一和第二部分,大约10万字),书名暂为<i>mabakoola: paradise regained </i>(《玛巴库拉:复乐园》)已被正式录用,有望2024年年底或2025年上半年面世。这一消息特别振奋我心,自小学以来一直对作文(散文写作)深感恐惧,居然在晚年突破自我,从起草到被录用总共只花了20个月时间, 这项成就够自己在心里得瑟一阵子了。</p><p><span style="color: #222222;">3。9月25日,我今年唯一的一部个人诗集<i>free sonnets</i> 被美国的dark onus press 正式出版。这是我的第16部诗集,其中包括50首实验性14行诗。连接:</span><span style="color: #222222;">https://www.blurb.ca/b/11705634-free-sonnets</span></p><p><span style="color: #222222;">4。9月30日收到英国林肯大学<i>lincoln review</i>的通知,我的家史“feng shui“已被正式提名2023年年度的“最佳网络小说“。</span></p><p>5。10月28日收到美国网刊<i>unconventional courie</i>r的通知,我的实验性短篇小说 “emotional curiosity” 将被正式提名为美国文学“小推车奖”(pushcart prize) 候选作品。无独有偶,11月10日,另一个叫<i>SUSPECT</i>的网上文学杂志就同一作品向同一奖项也作了同样的提名。-- 迄今为止,我已获得该奖项12次的诗歌提名,2次的小说提名。鉴于我直到2022年年初才开始用英文写小说,这三次提名对俺糟老头子来说无疑具有莫大的鼓舞作用。</p><p>6。上半年写的11个短篇,已有5个被录用或发表。11月15日回加拿大后从19至29日又起草了10篇短篇小说,因为撩笔2个多月,回故乡一心贪吃贪玩,写作水平和精力都大大下降,作品实在太粗糙。</p><p>如果去年是我的诗歌丰收年,今年就是小说年,明年大概率属于长短篇小说的修改年。</p><p>尤其值得感恩庆幸的是,今年堪称我一生的鼎盛之年:文学(小说)创作方面获得最大的自我突破;经济活动方面达到最大的实际收益;情感生活方面享受到最美的心身体验 (回家与缪斯破镜重圆不是新婚胜似新婚)。没想到真地应了一句民谚:六六大顺!</p><p>有意思的还有一件事:离开故乡前几天有幸结识并见证了一位文盲“高人”。她不但超能或会巫术、懂“走神”,而且居然是我的远房表姐。</p><p>感恩上天对我眷顾有加!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏</p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-58076488182410907112023-07-08T18:16:00.088-07:002023-12-03T14:30:52.075-08:002023-老猿文讯9则<p><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="color: #222222; font-size: small;">1。年初美国华州塔柯玛"诗歌之音(电台)"对我进行了录音采访:</span></p><p><a href="https://radiotacoma.org/sound-poetry-archive-2023/">https://radiotacoma.org/sound-poetry-archive-2023/</a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-CA" style="background: white; color: #333333; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS Mincho";"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="color: #222222; font-size: small;">2。美国著名文学杂志 <i>Shennadoah </i>对我进行了电话录音采访:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-CA" style="background: white; color: #333333; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><a href="https://shenandoahliterary.org/thepeak/a-cross-cultural-understanding-david-interviews-yuan-changming/">https://shenandoahliterary.org/thepeak/a-cross-cultural-understanding-david-interviews-yuan-changming/</a><o:p></o:p></span></p><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">3。5月将小刊《太平洋诗刊》出版,考虑到网上出刊阅读量较大,还是恢复了以前的版式:</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-CA" style="background: white; color: #333333; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS Mincho";"><a href="http://poetrypacific.blogspot.com/">http://poetrypacific.blogspot.com/</a><o:p></o:p></span></p></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">4。自2021年12月27到2022年3月27完成的第一部英文长篇(实验性或杂合体)小说3部曲 <i>TOWARDs</i>于今年六月底初步定稿,一共长约15万个词左右。我并不打算请代理,但愿能被那家瞎了眼的出版社看中;</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">5。5月13至28日连续用英文新写了11篇短篇小说(flash/short fiction), 迄今已有两篇接到刊用通知,一篇题为:“initial contact“; 另一篇题为:“cat karma“; [自2022年6月以来一共写了22篇短篇小说,去年写的11篇已全部发表] -- 颇感意外的是,我今生竟然在退休后开始尝试用英文写小说, 虽还未被名刊刊用,但有幸大都能在短期内被英文杂志发表,而这一切皆起因于半世纪前初学二胡时收到过一个校音器 [我写的第一篇短篇小说题目就是 "The Tuner“ (校音器)],真是“人“缘巧合;</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">6。元月至六月底,我的英文诗歌与短篇小说一共获得55个录用通知,其中第一次接受我的投稿者大约有一半,比较著名的有美国的<i>LIT, Shenendoah,</i>英国的 <i>International Times,</i> 新加坡的<i>Singapore Unbound </i>及香港的<i>Cicada</i>等英文杂志。 </div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">7。5月与国内国际诗歌翻译与研究中心联合出版了以色列诗人的一个诗集,6月又出版了中国诗人杨吉军的英文译诗集。-- 在此顺便欢迎大家来电来信询问或洽谈用中、英文或双语出版书籍的有关事宜。(电话:778/371-0952,电邮:editors.pp@gmail.com)</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">8。我今年的第一部诗集叫 <i>Yellow Comedy</i>, 近日由美国的 Four Feathers Press 与其他3位美国诗人结集出版 <a href="https://fourfeatherspress.blogspot.com/2023/07/now-avbailable.html">https://fourfeatherspress.blogspot.com/2023/07/now-avbailable.html</a> (既有电子版也有纸质版),另一本叫<i>Free Sonnets</i>, 9月将由美国的Dark Onus Press 出版;</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">9。从3月到今天,一直忙于编辑、出版两本中文书:《心灵情书》和《心灵绿洲》,在国内各印了3万册,分别发至4个国家,5个地点,不日即将从上海起运;</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">二月下旬曾感染新冠病毒,症状较重,拖得时间也长,当时真怕吾命休矣,想到还有太多的事要做,但愿给我时间多写点儿。</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">人生本来毫无意义,对我来说,唯一的意义就是将我一生所经所历、所感所想诉诸文字。吾写故吾在是也。</div>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-90070145422881857892022-12-30T10:19:00.005-08:002022-12-30T10:19:46.242-08:00 有关新冠最重要的思考<p><br /></p><div dir="auto" style="background-color: white; color: #313131; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1rem; word-spacing: 1px;">新冠全球肆虐,面对家人亲朋不断中招,看到天下苍生苦疫久矣,<wbr></wbr>我想有两个重要的问题特别值得深思。<div dir="auto" style="font-size: 1rem;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-size: 1rem;">首先,这次世界范围内之所以疫情成灾,既有偶然的因素,<wbr></wbr>更是必然的结果。如果说全球化、<wbr></wbr>工业化的进程加速了病毒的演化与传播,<wbr></wbr>人性的邪恶加上科技的进步必定会衍生出各种各样的"病毒",<wbr></wbr>核弹、新冠只是其中比较重大的两个,今后还会有其它不同的病毒。<wbr></wbr>就此而言,新冠实乃上天对人类各种恶性、恶行的最新、<wbr></wbr>最严重的警告。</div><div dir="auto" style="font-size: 1rem;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-size: 1rem;">同时,就新冠导致的结果来看,<wbr></wbr>它也可看作是大自然在利用淘汰机制迫使人类进化。<wbr></wbr>随着全球气候变暖,更多更古老的病毒将因冰川的融化而满血复活,<wbr></wbr>而人类的免疫功能又因为生活方式的改变不断减弱,<wbr></wbr>比如基础体温下降,生育能力减弱等,如果不淘汰免疫力低下的人,<wbr></wbr>人类就有灭种的可能。换言之,新冠是大自然帮助人类对付更多种、<wbr></wbr>更致命病毒的一种进化方式。</div><div dir="auto" style="font-size: 1rem;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-size: 1rem;">难道不是吗?新冠並不在乎你的年龄、性别、身体状况、社会地位,<wbr></wbr>它刻意真正收走的人都是免疫系统较差的人。想到此,<wbr></wbr>我只能为自己、为亲友、为同胞国人、为天下苍生祈祷,<wbr></wbr>我们都自求多福吧!</div></div>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-63566865095210714742022-12-21T15:17:00.014-08:002023-07-08T10:29:32.986-07:00 2022-老猿文讯8则<p><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="color: #222222; font-size: small;">自去年闭关至今整整一年,埋头耕耘,可幸不致颗粒无收。</span></p><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">1。年初加拿大新创Poetry in Canada (加国诗歌中心)邀我加盟。 (连接:https://www.poetrycanada.org/digital-library-archive/yuan-changming)</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">2。我所独创的“双语文化诗“ -’ 火水:阴阳’ 一诗于3月11日年初由美国最大、最具影响的诗刊之一Poetry Daily《每日一诗〉转载推介。连接:https://poems.com/poem/yin-yang-vs-water-fire-lesson-one-in-chinese-characters/ </div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">3。自2021年12月27到2022年3月27完成一个巨大的自我挑战,即我今生第一部英文长篇(实验性或杂合体)小说,该书为3部曲,一共长达14万左右的英文词。6月开始修改,但愿2023年6月底之前能改完并最终定稿。</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">4。5月将小刊《太平洋诗刊》首次以纸版诗集出版,同时也发行的电子版,网站只用来展示图片艺术及部分诗歌样本,效果比预想的好。连接:<a href="http://poetrypacific.blogspot.com/2022/05/pp-editors-notes.html" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">http://poetrypacific.blogspot.<wbr></wbr>com/2022/05/pp-editors-notes.<wbr></wbr>html</a> (for online sample poems, and artworks):</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09YTQGMQ5" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/dp/<wbr></wbr>B09YTQGMQ5</a> (for the e.book) &</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09YYGKVK2?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/dp/<wbr></wbr>B09YYGKVK2?ref_=pe_3052080_<wbr></wbr>397514860</a> (for the paperback)</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">5。5月至10月,连续正式出版了4部英文诗集,都是纸版,其中《中华龙: 双语文化诗》实乃笔者自认为对英语文学的独特贡献,由美国唯一的一家学院出版社出版,颇觉慰籍。以下是连接:</div><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: small;">1)</span><i style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">All My Crows</i><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: small;"> at: https://www.coldriverpress.com/HTML/pocketbooks.htm </span><br style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;" /><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: small;">2)</span><i style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">E.dening</i><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: small;"> at: https://www.amazon.com/dening-Changming-Yuan/dp/195027621X/ref=zg_bsnr_10252_7/130-1422236-4143436?pd_rd_i=195027621X&psc=1 </span><br style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;" /><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: small;">3)</span><i style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Homelanding</i><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: small;"> at: https://www.amazon.com/Homelanding-Yuan-Changming-ebook/dp/B0BB1JBS37 </span><br style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;" /><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: small;">4)</span><i style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Sinosaur</i><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: small;">: Bilingual-Cultural Poems at: https://redhawkpublications.com/Sinosuar-p504579309</span><br style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;" /><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">6。5月开始用英文尝试写作短篇或超短篇小说,截至今日,我已完成10篇小说的创作,其中7篇已被录用,尤其是有关我家史的五篇(标题分别是fengshui; goose; ancestry worshipping; converting; hanyang: the death of a widow), 都有幸得到认可,“风水”一篇似乎写得最好:</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">1)fengshui: 连接:https://thewildword.com/fiction-yuan-changming/</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">2)goose: 连接:https://aloka-magazine.com/2022/08/10/goose-yuan-changming/</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">(其他将陆续通过网刊面世,只有个别的会仅见于纸版)</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">7. 9月中为美国一位教授诗人出版了一部英文的纸版诗集,效果也比预期好。在此顺便欢迎大家来电来信询问或洽谈用中、英文或双语出版书籍的有关事宜。(电话:778/371-0952,电邮:editors.pp@gmail.com)</div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">8. <span face="宋体">10</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN">月因为去年发表的一首短诗获得提名由一家加拿大知名网络公司做成虚拟现实的综合性艺术作品,虽然明年才能正式面世,但政府资助的</span><span face="宋体">2000</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN">加元已经落袋为安,接到通知时全家还以为是网上诈骗呢。</span></div><p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #222222; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></div><div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">俺老汉虽已到正式退休的年龄,但出门卖苦力,居家爬格子,自得其乐,不亦乐乎。更有幸者,近年不但有人成为俺的文学缪斯,还有人愿做俺的文学知己,除了庆幸,都是感恩!</div>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-28051180388212272052021-12-22T10:24:00.015-08:002021-12-22T10:36:39.586-08:00老猿闭关+最新文讯<p> 1/。 10 月获得31个诗歌录用通知,11月 16 个,12 月 14 个,其中 42个是来自新杂志的首次录用,包括《丹佛评论》 Denver Qtrly、《诗殿堂》Poetry Hall 和 《幽暗》Dreich。<wbr></wbr>在我发表诗歌的国家名单中增加了哈萨克斯坦:迄今为止,<wbr></wbr>我的诗歌已被 48 个国家/地区的 2000 多家文学机构接受或即将发表;</p><p>2/。 11 月 20 日,美国一家新的在线杂志 Pink Plastic House 通知我,他们已就我的短诗“脸谱:为廖海伦而作” 向2021 年手推车奖正式提名: https://kristingarth.com/pink-plastic-house-a-tiny-journal/the-haunted-dollhouse/haunted-dollhouse-season-2/features-by-yuan-changming/. 这是我第 12 次获得该荣誉提名;</p><p><br />3/ 12 月 20 日,加拿大最负盛名的文学杂志之一《马拉哈特评论》告诉我,<wbr></wbr>他们拟就我的 3 首“双语文化诗”正式向加拿大第 45 届全国杂志奖(诗歌类)提名。<wbr></wbr>这三首诗作最初发表在该杂志的第216期,<wbr></wbr>最近在其网站上还发表了对我的书面采访(链接:<a data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=http://www.malahatreview.ca/interviews/yuan_interview.html&source=gmail&ust=1640280418208000&usg=AOvVaw16YVhLLYLLyyo6yd-MzX2I" href="http://www.malahatreview.ca/interviews/yuan_interview.html" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">http://<wbr></wbr>www.malahatreview.ca/<wbr></wbr>interviews/yuan_interview.html</a><wbr></wbr>);<br /><br />4/。从今天开始,我将开始闭关。通过这种自我强加的‘禁闭‘,<wbr></wbr>我可以更好地专注于自己最私密的努力。<wbr></wbr>这种自我限制早就应该进行。现在正是时候,<wbr></wbr>因为我已经出版了自己几乎所有最重要的中英文书作,目的原本是为了预防我抗疫失败。以下是有关链接,<wbr></wbr>欢迎有兴趣者移步光顾::<br /><br />- LIMERENCE(温哥华:太平洋诗歌,2021 年)。 <a data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.amazon.com/Limerence-yuan-changming/dp/B0991CGXLJ&source=gmail&ust=1640280418208000&usg=AOvVaw2IOR3NnDdkc2VTQEd6D_W6" href="https://www.amazon.com/Limerence-yuan-changming/dp/B0991CGXLJ" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/<wbr></wbr>Limerence-yuan-changming/dp/<wbr></wbr>B0991CGXLJ</a><br />- (R)e.volution(洛杉矶:Wapshott,<wbr></wbr>2021 年)。 <a data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.amazon.com/R-volution-Poetrylandia-6-ebook/dp/B08XQ5RRSS&source=gmail&ust=1640280418208000&usg=AOvVaw36otZ8_a3ZhB2V0YH7Sk4_" href="https://www.amazon.com/R-volution-Poetrylandia-6-ebook/dp/B08XQ5RRSS" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/R-<wbr></wbr>volution-Poetrylandia-6-ebook/<wbr></wbr>dp/B08XQ5RRSS</a><br />- 《袁昌明诗选》(袁昌明诗选)(温哥华太平洋诗歌出版社,<wbr></wbr>2021年)。https://www.amazon.com/%E8%A2%81%E6%98%8C%E6%98%8E%E8%A9%A9%E9%81%B8-Traditional-Chinese-%E8%A2%81-%E6%98%8C%E6%98%8E-ebook/dp/B092TRSGXM</p><p>- 《忧华集》(My Chinese Concerns)(太平洋诗歌出版社,2021年)。 <a data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.amazon.ca/%25E6%2586%2582%25E8%258F%25AF%25E9%259B%2586-Traditional-Chinese-%25E8%25A2%2581-%25E6%2598%258C%25E6%2598&source=gmail&ust=1640280418208000&usg=AOvVaw0Ml8_ZTnxxYRk0kLdhhxEw" href="https://www.amazon.ca/%E6%86%82%E8%8F%AF%E9%9B%86-Traditional-Chinese-%E8%A2%81-%E6%98%8C%E6%98" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.ca/%E6%86%<wbr></wbr>82%E8%8F%AF%E9%9B%86-<wbr></wbr>Traditional-Chinese-%E8%A2%81-<wbr></wbr>%E6%98%8C%E6%98</a> %8E-电子书/dp/B09348KQG5<br />- 《致初恋:一个知青的海外生涯》(致初恋的一封信)(<wbr></wbr>温哥华西西出版社,2021年)<br /><a data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.amazon.com/%25E8%2587%25B4%25E5%2588%259D%25E6%2588%2580-%25E4%25B8%2580%25E5%2580%258B%25E7%259F%25A5%25E9%25&source=gmail&ust=1640280418208000&usg=AOvVaw0G4gdq-MXLEFHMoFMouOm4" href="https://www.amazon.com/%E8%87%B4%E5%88%9D%E6%88%80-%E4%B8%80%E5%80%8B%E7%9F%A5%E9%" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/%E8%87%<wbr></wbr>B4%E5%88%9D%E6%88%80-%E4%B8%<wbr></wbr>80%E5%80%8B%E7%9F%A5%E9%</a> 9D%92%E7%9A%84%E6%B5%B7%E5%A4%<wbr></wbr>96%E7%94%9F%E6%B6%AF-繁体-中文-%<wbr></wbr>E6%98%8C%E6%98%8E -电子书/dp/B09BLSWF5C<br /></p><p><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;" /></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-7273591363380179912021-12-22T09:40:00.003-08:002021-12-22T09:40:14.444-08:00老猿346-國人之奢<p><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">當今世界因為消費型資本主義盛行而奢風日烈,作為新晉的有産階級或“小康</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">人士,國人也開始追求奢侈,且與西方的發達國家相比也有過之而無不及。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">一方面因為我們特別好面子、講排場,另方面因為口袋裏突然比以前任何時候都有錢,三方面因為我們來錢似乎比別人更快、更多或更容易,我們幾乎在一夜之間學會了花錢不手軟、浪費不心疼。在吃、穿、住、行、用方面大多追求名牌、稀奇、貴重、豪華、氣派、彩頭等等,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">往往遠超實際需要的水平。即使某些人能力有所不及,也常常忍不住要打腫臉充胖子,哪怕是賣血、賣腎、借高貸也在所不惜。大自汽車,小到手機、腕表、包包、袋袋都要限量版,無論什麽商品簡直是越貴越有人搶,全世界的奢侈品在中國境內可謂高歌猛進,大有水漫金山之勢。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">殊不知,奢侈就是浪費,而浪費就是犯罪。如此奢侈成風,我們是在對自己、對後代、對地球犯罪呀!</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-18761034578179498812021-12-01T09:48:00.006-08:002021-12-01T09:48:58.328-08:00老猿345-國人之誼<p><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">作為群體性動物,凡人無不希望有朋友。對大多國人來說,平生能獲一兩個</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">知音</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,實已足矣。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">曆史上我們雖不乏可歌可泣有關友誼的故事,耳熟能詳者比如伯樂子期之交、管鮑之誼、劉關張桃園三結義等等,但統觀當今之中華社會,老猿觀察到國人的友誼絕大多數情況下屬于兩個極端方式。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">一方面,特別在男性社交活動中,我們的友誼常常都是酒肉朋友,互相之間的往來不是圍繞著飯局、牌桌,就是三五成群地在一起尋歡作樂,比如唱歌跳舞、飙車賭博或釣魚下棋。這種基于感官、肉欲、物質的友誼顯然只是某種利益或利害關系的延伸。另一方面,我們在友誼中加入了中華文化特有的</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">義氣</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">內容,為了維護友誼,我們可以隨時犧牲原則而罔顧正義或公德。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">酒肉朋友和義氣哥們是中華社會最為普遍、自然也是最為常見的兩種友誼方式。因其庸俗而有害的特性,我們還是少交這些朋友才好。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-10495516986609783172021-11-24T09:07:00.000-08:002021-11-24T09:07:00.745-08:00老猿344-國人之誓<p><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">隨著現代化(即世俗化)的不斷向前推進,當今的世人常常把自己說過的各種、如政治和職業的誓言丟之腦後,在此方面國人似乎尤其突出。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">就日常語言方面看,漢語裏的誓言好像特別發達、豐富,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">隨時隨地我們都可聽到各種大小誓言,包括重誓、毒誓。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">隨時可以聽到的比如:假若</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">要是。。。,讓我遭天打雷劈、不得好死、出門撞車、生孩子無屁眼等等。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">其實,好發誓者只能說明其人的信用已經破産或瀕臨破産。真正誠實而講信用者是很少發誓、甚至從不發誓的。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-44169233692864860052021-11-17T09:36:00.008-08:002021-11-17T09:36:46.761-08:00老猿343-國人之諾<p><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">據信古人大都</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">一諾千金</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。不過,依老猿看來,這多半只是一種有選擇的曆史記載或傳說而已。或者說,正是因為曆來重諾者少,史上才有濃墨相記。不管事實如何,當今的國人普遍輕諾,說話不算數,大家早已習以為常、聽之任之。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我們愛撒謊、容易做僞證、說話言不由衷、稱呼言不副實,待人常常虛情假意,隨便作出無意履行的承諾,諸如此類的習慣性表現足以說明一百多年前西人對我們的觀察是比較細致到位的:我們並非一個誠實的民族。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">毋容置疑的是,為了自己的信用,我們應該杜絕輕諾或者甯可少諾、甚至不諾,除非我們絕對能履行之。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-24935262642823874132021-11-10T09:31:00.003-08:002021-11-10T09:31:24.840-08:00老猿342-國人之“信” <p><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">信</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">顯然並非中華文明的獨創,而是代表了一個全人類最寶貴、最美好的普世價值之一。古今中外,凡有人群的地方,無不強調“人無信則不立</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的社會行為准則。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">國人雖然也非常注重樹立、維護和提倡信用之信,古今有關的故事簡直數不勝數,可惜因為我們實在太愛撒謊,大謊小謊,黑謊白謊,常常信口說來而臉不紅、心不跳。同時,我們又往往言不由衷、言不副實或言不及義,所以我們在</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">信</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">字上的表現有時真令人失望、沮喪乃至汗顔。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">無怪乎,時有報道說西人在法庭上甯可偏信一個西人的證言,也無意采納五個華人的證詞。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-29625626185700946892021-11-03T10:11:00.007-07:002021-11-03T10:11:32.821-07:00老猿341-國人之“智”<p> <span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">智</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">本是印度哲學及佛教中與</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">慧</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">最為接近的概念,因為常常譯作漢語中的</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">知</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,所以在中華文化中有時與其相互混淆、相互替代。後來成為五常中的</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">智</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">(即源于孟轲提出的</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">是非之心</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">),其意義範圍逐漸變窄,直至在一般人心中成為知人之</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">智</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">根據</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">智</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在語義上的演化過程,不難看出國人之智所強調的並非“智慧</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">之</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">智</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,更非</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">知識</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">之</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">知</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,而是在人際交往中看人的本領。不消說,這種偏頗也許有助于提升國人的人際鬥爭水平或社會生存技巧,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">但對我們追求智慧和知識並無多大補益。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">因為我們太注重實用,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">智</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">明明應該是比較純粹的精神追求,在我們一般人的實踐中卻蛻變成狹隘的識人之術。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-82176156225267238282021-10-20T07:39:00.013-07:002021-10-20T07:41:25.629-07:00老猿340-國人之“禮”<p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">國人自古就有十分重</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的傳統。但如前所提及,這個</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">並非禮貌之</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,而是禮儀是</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,即符合、並有助于維護等級秩序、宗法或統治制度的行為規範。正如孔丘所倡導的那樣,我們注重的是</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">非禮勿視、非禮勿聽、非禮勿言、非禮勿動</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">等等。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">由于我們在社會生活中有言不由衷、言不副實的交際習慣,又不懂得、更談不上在言行舉止上強調讓他人、尤其是讓陌生人也感受到尊重,我們實在算不上是個懂禮、講禮的民族。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">如果硬說國人非常重</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,還不如說我們格外講交際規矩、分社會等級、重人倫秩序。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-37980752888306073062021-09-29T09:50:00.003-07:002021-09-29T09:50:18.647-07:00老猿忧华集339-國人之“仁”<p><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">仁</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">乃傳統中華社會最高的人文價值之一,尤其經過孔儒的界說與推崇,</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">仁</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">自古就是國人最重要的道德標准、人格境界及哲學概念。直到當今,我們還常常聽到</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">廣施仁政</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">仁者無敵</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">仁人志士</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">殺身成仁</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">為富不仁</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">你不仁我不義</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">等等與之密切相關的各種說法。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">仁</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的語義內容非常複雜,甚至有些撲朔迷離、遊移不定,所以必然會仁者見仁,莫衷一是,老猿我在此無意展開討論。但可以肯定的是,我們口中、心中的</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">仁</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">絕非古代耶、佛兩教所強調的</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">大愛</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,更非近現代西方文明提倡的</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">博愛</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。它雖不無慈悲的成分,但主要還是一種政治教化的出發點、目的或理想以及相關的方式、手段,與宗教情感似乎無關。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">由此可見,國人之</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">仁</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在內容上過于飄忽,在實踐上也顯得膚淺。自古迄今,我們也許</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">仁</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">得有余,愛得卻不足。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-34728832326455193772021-09-27T09:04:00.001-07:002021-09-29T09:48:06.124-07:00胡子著《胡说八道》今正式面世<p><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">胡子博士所著《胡说八道》一书经我太平洋诗歌出版社出版、由亚马逊电子书店公开发行于今天正式上线:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09H6HP35H 欢迎购阅!</span><br style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;" /><br style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;" /><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><b>本书简介</b>:一位工學博士、科學家、企業領導者在巜胡说八道》一书中以其幽默的口吻、简洁的笔触展示了他独到而系统的深度思考,亦即以一個普通人、而不是一個管理者的角度探求如何擺脫所有的控制、痛苦而擁有永恒的自由和幸福。</span><br style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;" /><br style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;" /><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><b>作者简介</b>:胡子博士是一位学养非常深厚、阅历极为丰富、充满人生智慧的思想者和实干家。上世纪90年代從中國農村來到美國,20多年來,學習研究了佛學,道教,基督教,家排,成功學,科學教,塞斯,催眠發呆術,冥想,教練技術,奧修,內心工程,密宗,顯宗,薩滿教,瑜伽,禅修,思緒頻率,維度或意識“通道”, 蟲洞、弦療法和相對論,量子理論……詳細研讀了300多本世界頂級心身靈、情緒療愈、身體放松、心理和直覺讀解、呼吸法、神聖儀式、能量工作、脈輪平衡、聲音療愈、轉型人生輔導等等書籍,研習過包括哈佛醫學院Gregory Fricchione 醫學博士、本森-亨利研究所Herbert Benson博士、加州理工學院Dean Ornish教授、幹細胞生物學家Bruce Lipton博士、情緒釋放技巧發明者Dawson Church博士、輕斷食專家Eric Berg博士等在內衆多科學家的研究報告和專利内容,還實地體察了華為原董事長孫亞芳靜修過的The Haven中心,喬布斯禅修Jikoji中心, 靈修聖地 Sedona,希臘Poseidon神廟,拜訪羅馬梵蒂岡等,并獲得美國NLP實踐培訓證書, 著作有分形理論多部。</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eDx1J5_c40Q/YVHojK5Wk6I/AAAAAAAADTg/1oF5q20JhPQIRxh2KC3x8Ye2qNhTP8o2gCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/unnamed.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="640" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eDx1J5_c40Q/YVHojK5Wk6I/AAAAAAAADTg/1oF5q20JhPQIRxh2KC3x8Ye2qNhTP8o2gCLcBGAsYHQ/w480-h640/unnamed.png" width="480" /></a></div><br /><p dir="auto" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><b><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">目錄</span></b><b><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 16.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><b><span lang="HI" style="font-family: "Mangal",serif; font-size: 16.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">前言</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">第</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">道:人由身體,真我,虛我</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">, </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">和思緒構成。</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.1</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">什麽是人?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.2 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人體</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.3 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“虛我”的信念系統</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.4 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">如何看透人</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.5 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人是活靈魂的,不是活身體的</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.6 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的維度,層次和格局</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.7 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人之初</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.8 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">靈魂即思緒</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.9</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人的真我</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.10 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人一但進入群體中,思維特征和行為有什麽變化?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.11 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">三人行</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.12 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">男人為什麽比女人早死七到八年?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.13 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人的思緒喜歡一些什麽?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.14 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒與細胞是剛性連接</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.15 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人生差別</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.16</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">死前發脾氣</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.17 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">睡過的地方難忘</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.18 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">心靈成長</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.19 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">為什麽有許多女人追求心靈成長?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.20 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">夢遊</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.21 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">基督必須是聖母瑪利亞處女所生</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.22 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">拼命的人</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.23 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒與細胞脫鈎</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.24</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">念頭即思緒</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.25</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒與時間空間</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.26 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒尋求依賴</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.27 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人的思緒有一個慣性模式</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.28</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的活動步曲</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.29 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的想象</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.30 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的高維維度</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.31</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的方式決定人的命運</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.32</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的慣性</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">1.33 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的頻率</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">第</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">道:人的身體與真我幾乎相同,是“虛我”讓人與人的區別巨大。</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>2.1</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人常常被操縱的三面</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.2 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">影響力</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.3 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">不好意思是什麽意思?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.4 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人與人的關系</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.5 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">靈是什麽?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.6 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">情緒控制</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.7 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人們喜歡誰?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.8 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的呵護方法</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.9 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">愛和喜悅是什麽樣的呢?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.10 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">愛情就是交流</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.11</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人“願靜思”的天性</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.12 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">甯靜與自我接納的時間</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.13</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">目標設定好了就好了</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.14 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">女人和男人的思維方式不同</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.15 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">嫉妒心</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.16 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">老大、老二、老幺</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.17 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">崇拜基因</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.18</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">崇拜</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.19</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">權威</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.20 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">老板與職員之間的關系</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.21</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">擁有財富你與體驗享受財富是兩回事</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.22</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">恐懼産生貪念</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.23 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">恐懼死亡</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">2.24 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">培養孩子</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">第</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">道:我們普通民衆因深陷“虛我”而常常被洗腦和控制。</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>3.1
</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">勾、哄、嚇</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"> -- </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">通過能量場來影響一個人</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.2</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">神銷售</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.3 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">克服恐懼</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.4 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">外面的世界真的不精彩</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.5 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">物質世界大都相近,解讀卻大有不同</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.6 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">話語是不同的</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.7 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">適時講的話</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.8 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">真我</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.9 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">虛我</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.10 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">最珍貴的身體</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.11 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">鳳凰涅槃</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.12 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">一個什麽樣的領導班子最容易成功</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.13 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">老板的安全感是建立在下屬害怕的基礎上的</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.14</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">真理</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.15 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">偉大的談話</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.16 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">吸引力法則</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.17 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">決定</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.18</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">讀心術</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.19 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">兩條平行線</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.20 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人怕什麽</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.21 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">內心認定</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.22 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">吹牛</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.23 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">多欲和自私</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.24 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“大魚吃小魚”的叢林法則</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.25 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">好人先死</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.26 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">深層恐懼</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.27 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">如何克服恐懼</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.28</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">孩子為什麽喜歡媽媽多于爸爸</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.29</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">開會</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.30 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">操縱</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.31 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">看一部電影,我們進入主角角色</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.32 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">看人下菜碟</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">3.33 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">知識分子說話沒有影響力的原因</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">第</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">道:人的思緒源于身體、並與身體的細胞剛性連接。</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>4.1
</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的自動機制</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.2 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">決定思緒的模式</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.3</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">自私</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.4 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人生活的空間不真實</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.5 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人的身體如一部機器,開好開壞全在自己</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.6</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">長壽實說</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.7 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">理發讓人年輕和長壽</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.8</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">完美世界</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.9</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人臉表情</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.10 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">生活質量</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.11</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">減肥</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.12</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">體驗人生美好的實驗</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.13 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">身體與虛我</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.14 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">發怒的身體反應過程</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.15 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">悲傷的身體反應過程</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.16 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">高興的身體反應過程</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.17</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">性愛的身體反應</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.18 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">吵架時的思緒與身體反應</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.19 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">狗命好</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.20 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">好人有好報是瞎扯,好人不長命才是常態</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.21 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">女人幸福最大的源泉是性生活</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.22</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">宗教信仰與體形</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">4.23 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">閑聊八卦</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">第</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">道:人獲得自由解放的秘密是:思緒有效的自我控制。</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>5.1
</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">肉體感受</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.2</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">心靈成長的目的是認識,不是完美</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.3 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">心靈成長可以是核武器</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.4</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">忽悠</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.5 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思想創造實相</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.6 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">銷售的核心</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.7 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒引導</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.8 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒安放</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.9</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">邪教控制人的關鍵步驟</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.10 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">男人女人</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.11</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">媽媽的味道</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.12</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">男女關系中的時間差</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.13</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">老公與狗</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.14</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">誠實地對自己回答:你究竟怕什麽?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.15 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">冥想重點</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.16 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人的性格</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.17</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人性的全部弱點</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.18 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“書中自有黃金屋,書中自有美如玉”</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.19</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人的需求</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.20</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">價格與價值</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.21 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">克服恐懼最有效的方法</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.22</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">如何創造夢想</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.23 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">心靈成長</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.24</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">音樂</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.25</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">教會</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">5.26 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">百無一用是好人</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">第</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">道:人的真我在于細胞的傳遞,不是細胞本身;真我的意義在于體</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: "Mangal",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">驗和創造。</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.1 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人生的意義</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.2 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人生的目的</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.3 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">活在當下</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.4 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">活著</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.5 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">做官、金錢與人生的意義</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.6 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">擁有是一種幻覺</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.7 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">一種情緒包含著相互對立的另外一種需求</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.8 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">創新是引領發展的第一動力</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.9</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">做決策</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.10</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">農村人與城裏的姑娘</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.11 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">寵成無能</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.12 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">成功人士的共性</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.13</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">成功男人後面的妻子</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.14 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">成功的人</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.15</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">放羊與喂豬</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">6.16 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">旅行或出差</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">第</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">道:人類的理想社會:保證真我的延續,利用“虛我”</span><span lang="HI" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"> </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">。</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.1 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">最美好的狀態</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.2</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人類的理想社會</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.3 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人類能折騰出來最美的物質生活是什麽?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.4</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">東西方公平</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.5 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">社會公平</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.6 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“消除虛我”是自我解放的鑰匙</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.7 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">思緒的操控</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.8</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">貪心</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.9</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">賺錢</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.10 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">銷售的頂級奧秘</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.11</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">中國現今的社會</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.12 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">中國人的核心價值</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.13</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">不同國人的核心價值觀</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.14 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">世界變得透明</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.15 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">別信:“窮則獨善其身”;可信:“達則兼濟天下”</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.16 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">千裏馬</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.17 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">將來的目標</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.18 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人類只有三件事</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.19 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">理想</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.20 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">資本主義與社會主義</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.21 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">科學體系與收入</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">7.22</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">私有財産</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">第</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">8</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">道:人類社會發展的頂峰</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“愛(</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">AI</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">)獲權</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">-</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">自由人民”社會</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">。</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">8.1 </span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">人類社會的發展</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">8.2</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">一個人生活在資本主義社會和社會主義社會的區別</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">8.3</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">絕對的安全感</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">8.4</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">自私的本性</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">8.5</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">世界變化這麽快,我們應該怎麽辦?</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">8.6</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">自由比地位和尊重更重要</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;">8.7</span><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">未來世界</span><span lang="EN-CA" style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: "Mangal",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span lang="HI" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">出版後記<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-9567093649180157282021-09-22T09:12:00.004-07:002021-09-22T09:12:25.989-07:00老猿338-國人是個禮貌的族群嗎?<p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">雖生活在</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮義之邦</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,我們其實遠遠算不上是個注重禮貌的族群。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">不錯,我們在</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮節</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">方面是有許多講究,如在日常交往中,我們都常說</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">來而不往非禮也</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">敬人三分</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">先禮後兵</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">等等;在行為上我們也有許多常規做法,比如敬煙、敬酒、敬茶、敬坐、敬菜、敬禮、敬言、敬恭等等。但所有這些言行並不一定表明我們是一個真正懂得禮貌的民族。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮貌的本質是讓對方覺得受到尊重。根據這一定義,我們所實踐的只不過是某種貌似禮貌的習慣作派。在絕大多數情況下,我們的言行不是言不由衷,就是動有所求。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">尤其是面對陌生人,我們可能下意識地將其視作</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">非人”而忽略其存在,所以才在大庭廣衆中常常旁若無人地高聲喧嘩、插隊、吐痰。即使在熟人故交面前,我們有時也是強行敬煙、惡意勸酒、被迫敬坐、胡亂敬菜,這些行為顯然都不算真正的禮貌。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">作為一種基本的文明素養,禮貌實乃我們相對比較欠缺的修為。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-65547304105865534202021-09-08T10:03:00.007-07:002021-09-08T10:03:35.834-07:00老猿337-國人的虛情假意<p><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">不知何時,國人變得越來越虛情假意,其主要表現就是言不由衷。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在稱謂上,國人簡直可以說口上都摸了一層蜂蜜。無論說話者的真實態度如何,言辭上我們大都表現得非常近乎,什麽“尊兄”、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">賢弟</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我哥</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我嫂</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我姐</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我弟</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">咱爸</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">咱媽</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">等等等等,叫得讓人覺得肉麻,聽得令人心驚,蓋因為事實上根本就沒有這層</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">血濃于水</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的親緣關系,甚至連</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">幹</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">義</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">繼</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">、</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">養</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的法律或准契約型的關系也沒有。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在日常交往中,國人還特愛違心地講客套。明明沒有相應的安排、計劃或准備,為了表示親近,我們嘴上常常留人吃飯、請人飲茶、邀人喝酒、給人讓座、幫人做事。每逢此情此景,不但老外不知就裏而常常鬧尴尬、出笑話,就連老猿我也常常不知所措、無以應對。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">言不由衷是國人在人際交往中最普遍的習慣性表現之一,也可能是中華社會所獨有的一個文化傳統。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-25068879012888710022021-09-01T07:29:00.000-07:002021-09-01T07:29:02.871-07:00老猿336-國人的“三省”習慣<p><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">《論語》中曾子說:吾日三省吾身。雖經儒徒的大力推崇,但自中華社會獨尊儒家以來,不管是嚴格意義上的儒生,抑或是廣義上的讀書人,國人中真正從各方面、反複自覺地進行反省者又有多少?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">令人可歎的是,國人並無</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">三省</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的好習慣。相反地,我們大多好為人師,習慣上愛挑剔、批評、指責他人,聽不得不同聲音,容不下反對意見,更不願主動認錯,即使在錯誤的事實面前也常常死不認賬。我們習于文過飾非,很少靜下心來找時間獨處內省。對我們而言,內省、自省似乎只是得道高僧或賢達哲人的事。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">因為沒有</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">三省</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的習慣,所以我們絕大多數個體(比如老猿本人)在思想、行為上往往進步甚慢,以致整個文明也常常隨之原地踏步。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-70598019046918927202021-08-25T07:41:00.002-07:002021-08-25T07:41:13.897-07:00老猿335-國人的“三立”傳統<p><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">中華社會廣義上的讀書人,尤其是所謂的“精英人士</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">或</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">人上人</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,都孜孜以求地渴望</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">立德、立功、立言</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。作為中華最重要的人文價值命題之一,此三立實際上所代表的是知識人士的最高理想或成功的定義。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在實踐上,真正做到三者皆立的人寥寥無幾,古人太遠且不去翻故紙堆,近、現代能讓人想到的、也許是公認的最最著名的曆史人物非曾國藩莫屬。在</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">讀書做官</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的中華社會裏,近人國共兩黨的領袖蔣介石、毛澤東都格外推崇之,但包括他倆本人在內,真能勉強與之比肩者除了胡適似乎很難再找到第二人。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">事實是,有所立德者常常立的是虛僞之德,有所立功者往往是所立之功不抵其罪,有所立言者大多立的是虛言、空話,拾人牙慧也不成體系。而在某方面有所立者幾乎無一例外又在另一方面、甚至兩方面都有所失缺。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">世上本無完人,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">欲立者必有所廢。還是別去追求什麽三立,老老實實地把一件事做好就算不錯了。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-82490037211888827112021-08-18T07:49:00.006-07:002021-08-18T07:49:34.166-07:00老猿334-中華的“長城文明”<p><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">長城之所以長,不僅是因為我們(修建它)的曆史長,還是因為我們的防線長。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">作為地表最長、最厚、最大的圍牆,長城具有許多最重要的文明象征意義。就其建造本身而言,它非常顯著而實觀地反映出中華文明是</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span face="宋体" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">1/ </span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">注重形體(面子?)、結構(等級與秩序?)、及功能(實用主義?)的;</span><span face="宋体" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">2/ <span lang="ZH-CN">防禦性的;</span>3/ <span lang="ZH-CN">封閉性的;</span>4/ <span lang="ZH-CN">自我設限型的;</span>5/ <span lang="ZH-CN">收斂性的;</span>6/ <span lang="ZH-CN">禁锢型的;</span>7/ <span lang="ZH-CN">內鬥型的;</span>8/ <span lang="ZH-CN">保守的;</span>9/ <span lang="ZH-CN">根植于陸地或農耕的。。。。不言而喻,長城對我們的文化及國民性格都作出了粗壯的勾勒和濃厚的注解。</span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">所以,要體察我們的文化、了解我們的國民性格,最簡單、最直接的方式就是好好用眼、用心地看看我們的長城。人們常講“不到長城非好漢</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,也從某種程度上揭示了長城與中華文明、與國人十分緊密的精神聯系。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-3714086991836683652021-08-11T07:32:00.002-07:002021-08-11T07:32:14.679-07:00老猿333-中華社會是“禮儀之邦”?<p> <span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">先有《詩》序提到</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮義</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,後有《禮記》給以界說:凡人之所以為人者,禮義也。兩千多年以來,我們常常被稱或自诩為</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">衣冠上國、禮義之邦</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">其實,無論是上古提倡的</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮義</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">也好,還是後人常講的</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮儀</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">也罷,其含義並非被我們大多數人所誤解的那樣是</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮貌</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,而是指國家的制度化、法制化,尤其指社會生活的秩序化、等級化。說我們是</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮義之邦</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,無非是指中華社會自古就是一個強調社會秩序、等級森嚴的社會。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">有鑒于此,傳統意義上的</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">禮義之邦</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在現代文明中絕非什麽值得吹噓、自豪的稱謂,至于國人是否普遍注重禮貌待人則風馬牛完全是不相幹的另一碼事。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-43956201375258289472021-08-01T07:37:00.022-07:002021-08-01T07:46:00.374-07:00袁昌明著《致初戀》今出版发行<p><span style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">作为今年出版的第五本书、也是作者今生最后一部(自传体)中文作品. 《致初戀:一個知青的海外生涯》今已在亚马逊电子书店正式上架发行。本书是作者根据自己从一个农村小子变成下乡知青、又从工农兵学员变成洋博士移民的亲身经历所写的回忆录,其上半部分的主要内容曾于八年前以巜温哥华情笺》为标题分17次在网上发布过,如果不是机缘巧合,下半部分永远也不会写出来,更不会在今天正式出版。</span></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;">书中所叙述的绝大多数都是真人真事,只是因为其中有些人现在已经成为相关行业的佼佼者,甚至是国际著名的一流专家、教授或企业家,而有些内容又比较敏感属于个人隐私,大多进行了假名化和“虚拟化“处理。我本想耐心等到临死之前再出版此书的,但几个月来一直在为打第二剂辉瑞疫苗感到紧张不安,想到自己正好心脏情况较差、血小板数长期偏低,生怕因严重的副作用而意外掛掉,于是鼓足干劲,逼着自己只争朝夕、把余生想干的“大事”都提前做完,这一切当然都是抗疫的成果。</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;">打完第二剂疫苗,反应虽然很大很强,终究还是顺利过关了,余下的岁月都可算是上苍赐给我的额外奖赏吧。如果事遂人意,下半年我应该还有两、三部英文诗集在美国出版。</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;">这是拙著电子版的链接:<a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09BLSWF5C" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09BLSWF5C</a></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;">中文简介: 《致初戀:一個知青的海外生涯》一書的作者系當今來自中國、用英語創作和發表詩歌最多的華人。在這封堪稱中文裏最長的情書中,作者采用日記信及蒙太奇的方式向其初戀翔實而坦誠地講述了他作為一個”知青“在海外留學並成為第一代移民的人生故事。書中不乏艱苦卓絕的個人奮鬥和獨特鮮明的時代色彩,不失為讀者提供了生動而豐富的曆史切片,對所有立志求學、注重精神生活並不斷追求個人成長的讀者都大有補益。</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 5px 0px;">有意出版中英文作品的作者,随时欢迎联系。电话:778/371-0952;电邮:editors.pp@gmail.com</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Y92nWkXWRYM/YQaxeJyIOEI/AAAAAAAADRk/3Jaw0RPGrkQGUHZeTJjUvaDoOdjnDJAOQCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/unnamed.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="640" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Y92nWkXWRYM/YQaxeJyIOEI/AAAAAAAADRk/3Jaw0RPGrkQGUHZeTJjUvaDoOdjnDJAOQCLcBGAsYHQ/w480-h640/unnamed.png" width="480" /></a></div><br /><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-25125673366908366052021-07-28T07:53:00.005-07:002021-07-28T07:53:41.216-07:00老猿332-近、現代的發明創造與國人無緣<p> <span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">人類的現代文明在極大程度上都是建立在近、現代的發明與創造的基礎之上的。在可見的未來,情況會依然如此,而所有近、現代的發明與創造幾乎與我們沒啥關系,就此老猿常常納悶:其因何在?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">想想看,當今人類的個人或群體生活都離不開機械、電子産品,比如飛機、高鐵、汽車、輪船、坦克、潛艇、火箭、電燈、電話、電視、電腦、手機、冰箱、微波爐、機器人、互聯網等等等等。這些發明與創造無不基于現代科學知識,而現代科學的知識體系,比如物理學、化學、數學等基礎學科又幾乎無一是國人首先建立或原創的,所以,並非國人的才智有限或智商低下,而是我們的文化實在落後:我們的三觀有問題,我們的教育有問題,我們的社會政治傳統有問題。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">很難想象,一個不愛讀書、對真理的追求興趣缺缺的民族能在科學上有所建樹!</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-90433364749947841702021-07-11T11:08:00.002-07:002021-07-11T11:08:34.177-07:00袁昌明著《魂恋》今出版发行<p> <strong style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><span style="background-color: white;">LIMERENCE</span></span></strong><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><span style="background-color: white;"> 《魂恋》</span></span><span style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">是作者第十部、也是最新出版的一部英文诗集,书中收集了近一年多以来所写的47首英文原创诗,其中一半已见刊于英文文学杂志,包括美国的著名网刊《新世界作品》(New World Writing)、《美国媒体》(American Media)、法国的《私下摄影》(Private Photo Review)、奥地利《地中海诗刊》(Mediterrean Poetry)、南非的《博特索特绶》(Botsotso)、加国的《泰晤士评论》(the Temz Review) 等等。</span></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;">就内容而言,因全属"精神出轨"的诗作,读者也许会觉得我不顾廉耻、不讲道德、不够忠厚,但作为一个写作者我的文字却是十分真实的,其中无一句不是发自内心的呼喊。其实,古今中外天下有谁不曾精神出轨,世上哪有绝对忠诚的夫妻?!我不过只是把无数人不敢、不能、不便、或不屑表达的情感诉诸英文诗句罢了。</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;">这部诗集本想慢慢找到更加正规或知名的出版机构出版,並没打算在短期内将之付梓,但因健康和疫情两个严重因素相加,我怕熬不过新冠病毒、怕疫苗的副作用太大而使我意外掛掉了,所以昨天下午临时起意並匆匆将诗稿整理编辑,居然在半天之内完成清样校对甚至正式出版。今天刚刚收到通知已在亚马逊书店上架,纸质、电子版同时有售:</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><a href="https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B09946XHNS/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=kindle+ebooks+poetry+limerence+yuan+changming&qid=1626024915&sr=8-1" style="background-color: white; color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B09946XHNS/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=kindle+ebooks+poetry+limerence+yuan+changming&qid=1626024915&sr=8-1</a> (电子版)</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0991CGXLJ?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860" style="background-color: white; color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0991CGXLJ?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860</a> (纸质书)</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;">迄今我又了了一个心愿,过几天争取再出版最后一部(中文)书。</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;">在此,我非常非常感恩爱妻的理解、宽容与大度!!</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;">---------------------</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><img _src="/upfile/image/20210711/1626026558229367.png" alt="IMG-1933.PNG" src="https://blog.creaders.net/upfile/image/20210711/1626026558229367.png" style="border: none; max-width: 100%;" title="1626026558229367.png" /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><img _src="/upfile/image/20210711/1626026543246176.png" alt="IMG-1934.PNG" src="https://blog.creaders.net/upfile/image/20210711/1626026543246176.png" style="border: none; max-width: 100%;" title="1626026543246176.png" /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;">附目录如下:</p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px; text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #222222; font-size: 19px;">Table of Contents</span></strong></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #222222;"> </span></p><p style="font-family: Simsun, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 5px 0px 0px 0.5in;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">Table of Contents</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /><br /><br /><span style="background: white;">7 The Thought of You</span><br /><span style="background: white;">8. Stream & Lake</span><br /><span style="background: white;">9. In the Grove</span></span><br /><span style="background: white;">10. Valentine Gift</span><br /><span style="background: white;">11. Action and Reaction</span><br /><span style="background: white;">12. Chronometry</span><br /><span style="background: white;">13. Oxymoron: Love Is A</span><br /><span style="background: white;">14. Love Lines</span><br /><span style="background: white;">15. Kharma: A Mega Romance</span><br /><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">1</span><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">6. </span><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">You and Me</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /><span style="background: white;">17. The Tuner</span></span><br /><span style="background: white;">18. First Meeting after 42 Years Separation</span><br /><span style="background: white;">19. At a Dinner Party, Songzi, 2019</span><br /><span style="background: white;">20. Before, Before</span><br /><span style="background: white;">21. Behemoth</span><br /><span style="background: white;">22. The Unspeakable Spoken Out</span><br /><span style="background: white;">23. Confession Delayed by Half a Century</span><br /><span style="background: white;">24. Holistic Relationship</span><br /><span style="background: white;">25. Cardioid Reviewed</span><br /><span style="background: white;">26. Re: Posting</span><br /><span style="background: white;">27. You Are Sure</span><br /><span style="background: white;">28. ‘I Want to See You’</span><br /><span style="background: white;">29. Emoji</span><br /><span style="background: white;">30. Mamihlapinatapai</span><br /><span style="background: white;">31. Yearning for You, I Reach out</span><br /><span style="background: white;">32. Soulmating</span><br /><span style="background: white;">33. The Lovebird</span><br /><span style="background: white;">34. All Day Long</span><br /><span style="background: white;">35. Qi Hong Tea</span><br /><span style="background: white;">36. Vigiling</span><br /><span style="background: white;">37. Unrequited Love</span><br /><span style="background: white;">38. Man’s Last Position in the Battlefield</span><br /><span style="background: white;">39. Ways of Rejuvenating</span><br /><span style="background: white;">40. Cohabitating</span><br /><span style="background: white;">41. Quasi-Omnipotent Lover</span><br /><span style="background: white;">42. What Softens</span><br /><span style="background: white;">43. You Have Never Had Enough of Love</span><br /><span style="background: white;">44. Futuristic</span><br /><span style="background: white;">45. Wooing</span><br /><span style="background: white;">46. Missing Moment</span><br /><span style="background: white;">47. Craving</span><br /><span style="background: white;">48. Star & Butterfly</span><br /><span style="background: white;">49. Love Dose: A Sensual Sonnet</span><br /><span style="background: white;">50. Foreshadowing</span><br /><span style="background: white;">51. How I Wanna</span><br /><span style="background: white;">52. Screenshotting by a Weixin/Wechat Monitor: An Apolitical Poem</span><br /><span style="background: white;">53. Each Time</span><br /></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141646932904960335.post-2657696884120203642021-07-07T07:37:00.000-07:002021-07-07T07:37:22.576-07:00老猿331-中華文化裏為何科學不昌?<p><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">嚴格地講,中華文明從曆史上看不乏技術方面的發明與進步,卻並無真正的科學。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">科學是解釋世界的真理系統,而技術是改造世界的實用方法。就此而言,我們古代著名的</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">四大發明</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,其實都只是技術上經驗的積累與發現。而李約瑟所著的《中國的科學與文明》,其中大多所謂</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">科學”發明與創造乃至知識本身似乎都可歸類為技術發現。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-hyphenate: auto;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">依老猿看來,中華文化內部科學不昌的主要原因有二:</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Cambria",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-font-family: Cambria; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span face="宋体" lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">我們在教育方面讀書學習為的是在廣義上求取功名、決非在嚴格意義上追求真理;我們在認識論方面重感性、重直覺經驗而輕理性、輕邏輯分析。</span></p>poetrypacific.blogspot.cahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14560551510300869695noreply@blogger.com0