2015年11月23日星期一

忧中华141-国人为何缺乏自靠精神?


有意也好,无意也罢,国人向来惯于依靠他人。

不是吗,我们“在家靠父母“,所以我们从小爱拚爹,无不子以父贵,父穷母丑,乃是儿时的莫大悲哀;“出外靠朋友”,无论从政经商,还是打工游学,我们都要靠朋友义气去争名夺利;“家里靠贤内助”,男人要出人头地、事业有成,没有一个贤内助就难以成事;“老了靠子女“,经济上靠他们赡养,精神上也要靠他们支撑。

就是因为太强调这个“靠”字,太习惯依靠别人,所以国人普遍缺乏独立人格!

美国的精神之父爱默生在历史上曾大力倡导“自我依靠”(self-reliance),而我族在文明的进化过程中是否应该好好补补这一课?

是的,我们为什么就不能靠靠自己呢?!


2015, 6, 20 周六

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